More yesterdays than tomorrows.
What now?
A meaningful life begins with facing the truth of who you are. You don’t have to do it alone.
Existential Coaching
We are floating inside an incomprehensible mystery. Yet, by any metric—whether you want to use the imagery of ancient myth, a billion-year biological evolution, or the fact that we are quite literally made of stardust—your presence here is a miracle. The sheer capacity of what a human being can experience, hold, and create is staggering.
But we forget.
Instead of living in that capacity, we allow ourselves to be socialized into something comprehensible. We become docile and domesticated. We pretend we don’t know who we are, or we hide behind rigid rules of how life “should” be, simply to avoid the responsibility of our own agency.
Then, there’s a glitch in the Matrix.
For many, this glitch occurs not as a sudden trauma, but as an increasing midlife malaise. You checked the boxes and played your roles, but the ground has shifted, raising a persistent restlessness or numbness. It is a midlife awakening that forces the ultimate questions to the surface: “I have more yesterdays than tomorrows. What now? What do I actually intend to do with the rest of my precious, limited life? “
For others, the glitch is more sudden—an unexpectedly confronting spiritual experience, a profound psychedelic journey, or a devastating life upheaval that breaks your old map of reality wide open.
Whether it is a quiet inner grayness or a dramatic threshold opening, these moments bring you face-to-face with the Mystery again. But without a deliberate space to ground and process that exposure, the weight of daily socialization will inevitably pull you right back down into the comfortable comprehensible lie.
Existential coaching helps you integrate these experiences.
We bring together depth psychology, somatic awareness, and mythic storytelling to look at the primary questions of your life. Together, we clear away the socialized static, welcome back the neglected parts of your psyche, and help you find the courage to face the truth of who you are—so you can begin creating your life from a place of freedom, peace, and consciousness, instead of repeating outworn patterns that keep you stuck.
Financial Architecture: The Sliding Scale
Until recently, my standard rate for individual coaching was $300 per session. While sustainable for corporate executives and those whose work capitalism rewards, that flat barrier excludes many of the very practitioners, artists, and healers I respect and most want to collaborate with.
To cultivate mutual respect and maintain accessibility, I operate this branch of my practice entirely on an honor system sliding scale.
The Rule of 5%: Your total annual investment should represent roughly 5% of your annual income, assuming 24 biweekly sessions over the course of a single year. This mathematical structure is intended to ensure you feel the physical weight and commitment of the work, without ever being crushed by it.
Look at the brackets below, find the position that maps to your situation, and come to our intake session with your chosen number.
Session Fee Structure
|
Annual Gross Income |
Individual Per-Session Investment |
|
First Session / Intake |
$200 |
|
$25,000 – $48,000 |
$50 – $90 |
|
$48,000 – $103,000 |
$90 – $200 |
|
$103,000 – $197,000 |
$200 – $380 |
|
$197,000 – $250,000 |
$380 – $480 |
|
$250,000 – $626,000 |
$480 – $1,200 |
|
$626,000 – $1,000,000 |
$1,200 – $1,920 |
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